Sunday, January 18, 2009
Our baby angel arrived….
He is here and he is perfect and he already taught me a big lesson in life…that one can be in love at every second of her life with all her heart and soul…with more than one person!
I never thought I will ever love anyone the way that I love little boss…well live and learn my friend, live and learn!
The moment that I hold his naked body on my chest, I knew I am head over hill in love with him…with a little baby so delicate and precious…so angelic…
It is totally beyond imagination the description of the two grate love that are equal and yet not equal because after all these two individuals are so different…and believe me they are.
It is also interesting how one can feel happy and joyful when every part of her body is in pain…a pain as if being broken in pieces…a kind of pain that only a natural birth can leaves behind for a while…..
Our new arrival is not even a week old and still one can see the mind blowing individuality in the two brothers, the difference in their bodies and personalities…
So while I am still searching for a proper cyber name for my new arrival, I am tempted to call him for the time being “peaceful boss”….He really is!
Little boss took my breath away with his amazing reaction to the existence of his new brother outside of “the belly”. It really is worthy of a whole new entry. But just for now let me say my kind and emotional little boss loves his brother and showers him with shy kisses…and then once in a while you see the dilemma that goes on in his tiny generous heart: “He would have LOVED to have peaceful boss with him twenty four seven, if only somehow he did not have to share mommy with him or with anyone else for that matter”…..He is learning a big lesson and I am learning it with him. The whole dimension of sharing is as new to me as to my little boss. After all I am the only child and do not know what it means to have a sibling with all its pains and gains……
But life is a good teacher….
Life these days is beautiful, lovely, chaotic, hectic, energy consuming, very confusing and yet blissfully magical in our little household….. I will write more when some time comes in my way in my daily routine of life…will I ever have a routine of life again? I wonder….
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congratulations! congratulations! congratulations! a house with a new baby and an older baby is certainly blissed. i can imagine how busy you must be right now and yet you managed to write here!
i can write for ever here, every time a baby is born it feels to me like heaven has come down to earth.
and yes! you will have a routine of life again, maybe not very soon but you will. for now, this beautiful ciaos IS the routine!
big hugs and lots of love to your sweet family. smell and kiss the back of the peaceful boss' neck... there, lies a piece of heaven!
Dear آدم گلابی
It is so sweet of you to drop by and left your footprints behind. Thank you for all your well wishes.
I also think every time that a baby is born heaven and all that is good and angelic, showers our some times dark and sad planet….and trust me I AM kissing him head to toe and can testify heaven lies there in every corner:)
Kiss your little baby boy….I want to write a separate post about this but just to tell you: after holding peaceful boss in my arms for the first time, I realized that how much my baby little boss is no longer a baby…and then it came the whole feeling of “where did my baby go?”…He will be always my baby but OH GOD they grow up so fast….
Be well
OMG!
Congratulations dearest mommy Homeopath!
I got really happy that you and he are both fine. I hope your happiness lasts forever and ever...
Kiss the little boss and his newly brother.
Wish you all the best in the world.
:)
i know i know! i look at pesarak's pictures and i ask myself "where did it go?" that is why i think having a second one is a "must". with the first one, as new parents, we tend to be anxious, tired and not familiar with the journey this little souls have taken the first steps of or at least that was my experience.
i know you must be tired, sleep deprived and overwhelmed at times by love but you are a very aware, in control and full of love soul. your writings tell me so. and i am sure as tired as you are these days, one look at your little bosses and it is all gone.
many hugs and warm wishes for all of you
Dearest mommy homeopath,
I am so happy for you and your family of four (Officially!)
Congratulations to all three of you for the little angel.
May he always be a peaceful one in your household….
You will get some routine my dear; trust me…only it is different from before. It is a new routine that sometimes might make others laugh but work for your family. Also you know they say it takes 6 weeks for a baby to settle down and the parents realize where is left and right so to speak. Well in my experience in 2 babies it takes 12 weeks, not because of the baby and the parents but because of the element of the old sibling. That is a dynamic that plays a role all in its own.
Take care of yourself. I know exactly what you mean by the broken feeling after natural birth. And with second child one has so much less to take care of herself. So any spare time from little boss and peaceful boss HAS to go to mommy homeopath!
Eve
OH MY GOD!
Congratulations…and so many happy and loving wishes for the peaceful boss.
I am really happy for you mommy homeopath, just by reading your posts I know he has one of the best mommy’s in the world.
Rest and take your time. As much as I love to read your writings I think if you have a spare time you have to take care of your body and that delicate heart of yours.
Humor lover
Dear Mommy homeopath,
Congratulations, Congratulations, congratulations…… !
May the peaceful boss have a peaceful heart and soul, may he be loved and blessed with all the positive energies, may he become a wise and kind human being and may he ALWAYS cherish the mommy that he has…one of the best ones.
A reader
Dear Parinaz,
Thank you for all your kind wishes. You are really sweet.
I hope you are happy my dear!
Hi Mamma Eve,
Thank you for all your well wishes. I second your prayer that may he always be peaceful one in our household. As you know the newborns are more or less peaceful generally:)
Hope you and your family are well
Hi Humor lover,
Thank you for visiting me and for your warm massage and well wishes.
I will try my best to rest but some how this is NOT happening:)
Be well and happy dear!
Hi “a reader”,
Thank you so much for your kind wishes and blessings for peaceful boss.
I hope you are well and happy.
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